What Do You Need From Your Spouse?

[Justawoman]

What could your spouse do for you that would make you the most happiest? Try to keep this one at just one.

For me it would be to hear him say to me, " you are a beautiful person." Simple I know but something I have never heard. And I mean that he likes the person I have become on the inside. Validation from him would go along way towards making 20 years of growth seem worth it.

[OnceByten]

Having him tell me that I am doing a good job raising our four kids would be nice. I know I do a good job, but I don't hear it often. More often than not he is whinning about the load of laundry that didn't get folded.

Also, just a nice quiet eveing out for dinner and a movie maybe would be nice. We never go out. The last time we went out was December of last year to see Return of the King, I told him that I was going no matter what, so we made plans with my Brother and SIL to go and have dinner.

I think we should go out at least once a month....but it never happens :(

[jaimegerise]

For him to give more outward proof to me that he is passionate about me.