How Much Would You Put Up With

[Justawoman]

I don't know the statistics about marriages that end in divorce due to affairs. I do know couples, personally, who have worked through affairs and survived? Would you be willing to do this with your spouse? Is there something you would not even consider working through or getting counseling about?

Strange question I know. But one I am curious about.

[Noseypoo]

You know, I've never thought about it. {laughc}

But on the other I don't need to worry about hubby getting something strange on the side.

I would like to think that I'd work through it and take it as a lesson in life ...

[raybeck]

I would like to think, I could think like Nosey, but I'm not sure I could, to be honest, that would be the most devastating thing that I think Ray could do to me...I hope I would be willing to get counseling (both of us) and go forward, but I'm not sure Ray would be able to make it to the counseling...LOL All kidding aside, I can't even imagine having to deal with that and hope I never have to. I have had friends that have dealt with it and the majority did not make it!

[Hannamoren]

I agree with Beck. Don't think I could. It would hurt too much